I’ve been thinking about this for some time. the ideas keep
coming but are separated. The logic does not flow. Lately I’ve been getting
glimpses of how they might fit together. Just peeks, now and again. Enticing! Even
disturbing of sleep from time to time.
So, what’s the gist?
Here are the disconnected thoughts. Let’s see if any of them can be
weaved together.
·
Blame; someone is always finding blame for
something they don’t like; there has to be a person or persons responsible
·
Past, history; our focus on what went wrong,
trying to find the cause of what we don’t like today
·
Group thought or ideology; what are they, and
what don’t I like about it or them?
·
Right thinking; what do I believe and why do I think
it is better than other thought patterns?
·
How can I/we detract from those people or
thoughts that I don’t agree with?
·
How can I/we push our position forward to gain
more support?
·
I’m working on problems; how are each defined? What
is the core of each problem?
·
Why are the problems ‘problems?’ Why are these
important to me?
·
What are the solutions to the problems? Is this
a gradual process of repair, or are big steps needed to fix the issue? How probable
are the big steps to gain support for implementation?
·
Why fix these problems now? What order should
they be worked on? What are their interdependencies? Any at all?
This process of wondering through possibilities can be
endless; or at least it appears so! It is this quality of complexity that
deters successful management of problems and issues brought into
focus.
So what to do? What is the
connector?
Perhaps the connector is contained in the word ‘
outcomes.’
What I think and support is different in many ways from what others think and
support. It is the very nature of public discourse, discussion. Others are
always analyzing and poking holes in what others say. It is the nature of our
debating society. The juxtaposition of ideas struggling against others for
supremacy. The best ideas continue to rise to the top until we as a society
have agreed on something.
Well, it doesn’t always work well. The rising to the top
often kills off many good, workable ideas; they are offered out of sequence
or priority order. The trick is to remember those ideas for later use in their
correct order. That must be done so as not to lose the valuable thoughts that
are workable. Don’t ‘throw the baby out with the bathwater.’
So, what to do? What is the missing link here?
Oh, right;
outcomes.
At least I think it holds promise to help us move forward.
But first, a backtrack.
History. Our story of how we came to be Americans. The ins and outs of
that story. It is not all pretty. Some items are downright ugly. No use
ignoring the wrong turns we took over the centuries; we took those turns, right
or wrong. Most were right, but a lot were wrong. That’s why our history was
slow at times. We didn’t make rapid progress. And we still exhibit this
behavior of fits and starts. It is time-consuming. And it drains our energy. Of
more importance? It distracts us from what is truly important.
What is important? The story we want to represent us over
time. What we have attempted to be leads us to today, with all the good and
bad. That leads us to ask, “What is it we want our story to become?”
I call
this our
fustory.
All this work,
history, ins and outs, false starts and damaging mistakes have led us to today.
What is it we wish it to be?
What
outcomes do we think ought to happen if the
fustory is to happen to
fulfill our dreams of it?
These outcomes will need broad support from most of our
citizens.
We need
consensus on these
broad points if we are to evolve to our dream point.
By the way, we may never finally reach the
dream point; but it will always be out there pulling us toward it. It is the
nature of a dream. And our story, too. We struggle for it to be better.
Some consensus outcomes I think we already have set in
concrete:
· Equality of opportunity for all
· Diversity of age, race, culture and gender
issues
· Recognition of our immigrant past, present and
future
· Access to quality life-long education
· Economic opportunity for workers, risk takers,
et. al.
· Project our values into the global community for
their safety and opportunity
· Recognize we Americans do not wish to be
controllers of the planet; but we don’t expect others to
be, either; this is a
global village of which we are all equal
· Strive to treat others as we want them to treat
us; both here and globally
· Strive always for peace
· Work hard to protect our planet home from
self-destruction of any kind
That’s my list of outcomes. None will likely occur in
perfection; we will always need to work
forward on their progress.
Besides, as generations come and go they must learn these
lessons and abide by the consensus process. That takes experience, time and
introspection. And education. And a heart filled with goodwill.
I’m still hopeful all of this is possible. I’m willing to
work for this. Are you?
March 21, 2019