Problem Blaming

I have friends that grumble a lot. It matters not that we are on an errand, or going to a meal out. Casual conversation leaps readily to a social problem and an opinion on why something isn’t done about it? You know the type. He or she always has a point of view that attacks something in the public. An intersection is poorly designed, or has a flaw that needs correction. Instantly the local authorities are blamed for the problem. Why didn’t they see that and do something about it? Or, a local land development succeeds and creates traffic congestion. Why didn’t the planners see that coming? Why didn’t they prepare for the congestion and have a plan to manage it? What were they thinking? Or not?!


Oh, “and the schools these days, why don’t the teachers straighten these kids out?”


Yes, hindsight is usually 20/20. And the speaker isn’t one bit attached to the problem before, during or after. He leaves that work for someone else and then jumps on them when perfection is missed.


Meanwhile, others are making a tasty public stew from whatever local resources are on hand. If more resources are needed, they look for it elsewhere and corral such benefits to serve the community. Grants from the federal or state governments are examples of such resources. Also, private entities may be interested to partner with the project and share in the cost, risks and rewards. This is the work that makes good things happen for a community.


When they do, reality sets in an uncovers natural flaws. The local authorities go back to the planning table and study the problem, its causes and effects, and create possible solutions. In full view of onlookers, they discuss the solutions and costs, and decide on the course of action required. The emergent problems from the past project are thus attended to. It takes time, but the right thing gets done eventually. Inputs from everyone are welcomed and considered.


This is our form of government. Usually on the local level. Open for all to see. In the main it works pretty well.


That doesn’t stop the negative folk from sharing their statements of blame and characterizing the authorities as dumb, lazy or worse, corrupt.


It’s OK to speak one’s mind. It’s OK to identify problems. It is not OK to characterize others as the person to blame.


It is our job as citizens to come up with ideas that are good and make the community better. Or state. Or nation. We have the responsibility to be a collaborative partner in our own government. That’s what it means to be OF, FOR and BY the PEOPLE. Be a cheerleader. Be an idea person. Share your thoughts, both insightful and analytical.


But also be willing to be a part of the solution, not a part of the problem.


It is OK to point out flaws and defects; but what is your idea to solve that same defect?


Hmmm?  And then how do we go about doing just what you suggested? Can you lend a hand to this process?


November 6, 2019