Saturday, September 27, 2014

Thought for the Day



A brief post today. Something to think about for sure!

            “The only two presidents that reduced the deficit in the last 50 years.[Bill
            Clinton and Barack Obama]” ~ CADOF.org

Think about that as we enter this contentious election season.

September 27, 2014


Friday, September 26, 2014

Saying It Straight


Writing this blog for nearly three years I've come across lots of opinions about life and politics. So many opinions shared. So many pontifications! A lot of ranting. And I've done my share as well. But then the purpose of this blog for me is to vent my inner self, capture some fresh air and move on.

I share with you the thoughts of others when I spot something with special value. Usually those thoughts are to the point and well stated. Easy to remember.

Here is just such a quote. This one is from my daughter-in-law Michelle.

            “Nothing spurred this, just a thought pattern, I don't typically post about 'hot
button' items but hell, everyone else spews their opinions on this stuff, I might as well –

1) you should be able to spank your children if that is the discipline style you choose without fear of legal repercussion
2) you should be able to own a gun if you are a sane, law abiding citizen without being told you are a violent person
3) you should not have to defend your lifestyle to anyone
4) you should be provided with good medical care and education regardless of your income level
5) you should not have politicians involved in your family life
6) companies are not people and should not be treated as such
7) I would not personally choose abortion outside of medical necessity but I believe in a woman or couple's right to choose for themselves and I will not condemn those that choose that path

These are many of my beliefs, if you don't like it, unfriend me. If you would like to have an intelligent conversation I will gladly engage. If you mindlessly spew "facts" without doing the appropriate research, just walk away, you will only sound like a fool.”   ~Michelle Falco

Direct and to the point. On many issues. Most of those issues have been covered in my blog over the past 35 months. Some topics revisited often.  Michelle and I get along well. We agree often; disagree rarely, but accept those points of dissonance. We each have that right.

Why then so much disruption over disagreement in our land? Good question!

Some folks want you to believe as they do; they assume you just haven’t had the same access to the facts as they; or perhaps your education is deficient and they are there to set you straight. You know the kind. They don’t listen to others very well. They listen only as far as they need to determine if you agree with them. Then their minds are bent on setting you straight. They stop listening to your why and how-for and only dialog with their inner self to win an argument. But there is no argument. Only the one brewing in their skull.

Discussions built around agreements become boring in short order. Conversations constructed around disparate views is exciting, informative and motivating.  The motivation is to learn more, to understand a person’s perspective from their vantage point. How did they come by that viewpoint? What gave it shape for them?

I wonder if we understand how we came by our own perspectives?  Do we think on that often enough or even at all? Perhaps that’s the starting point for getting along with others.

Diplomats deal with this dissonance all the time. Their job is to get conversations started, then supported, then moved to the point of agreeing on some point upon which later agreements might be fashioned. It is all about getting along in the world. And we won’t if we don’t listen and compromise.

It doesn't take action to listen. But it is certain that compromise is impossible without listening.

Now there’s a thought for the day!  Thanks, Michelle for sharing your thoughts with us.

September 26, 2014


Thursday, September 25, 2014

Attracting Volunteers & Candidates


America is a land of volunteers. Especially true at local levels. Just ask the busy people in town and you will find people doing volunteer work – boy and girl scout troop leaders, gardening clubs and their beautification efforts for the town, musicians playing instruments and singing in choirs at the churches, hot meals for the shut ins, usually organized by the churches, food pantries, after school activities for kids, and a host of other programs and projects. Mostly all voluntarily suggested, created and implemented. 

The horsepower of successful communities are volunteers.

Visit your city hall and ask about volunteer opportunities. You will be presented with a list! There are committees, commissions and special projects all looking for volunteers. Visit the park district and you will learn of volunteer coaching assignments for several sports, day care gigs as well as senior citizen day care tasks. Talk with the library staff and the same kinds of volunteer jobs are begging for fresh new blood!  And the hospital. They especially need a strong supply of candy stripers and gray and blue vest workers guiding and welcoming patients and family members to the big, confusing, complex building. All for no pay.

And then there are the elected positions. Although they are not voluntary in the sense of self appointment, they begin with the voluntary decision to get involved and put their name in the hat! Deciding to run for public office is a big leap of faith. First, you must have confidence in yourself that you have something to offer to the position, and second, you must have faith that the voters will be fair in considering their vote for you.  If the position has more than one candidate, there will be public information meetings, possibly debates, and campaign literature, advertising and walking the neighborhoods looking for supporters.

In contested elections candidates have to gird themselves for the negative attacks frequently launched by one candidate against another. And the supporters of those candidates can become over zealous in their support and take the campaign where no one wants to go!

Such is life these days. You want to help the community, you wish to make a difference, and you honestly think you have something good to offer the community, then it gets thrown back at you and you begin to wonder what this is all about.

Been there. Done that! I've run and won a seat on our city council; running for re-election I had a serious contender who played dirty. I was not prepared for that. You’d have thought he was running for the Senate!  But no, this was a small local position usually considered boring by most voters. But still a needed position with important work to do.

Volunteering my time, talents and efforts to the community was one thing. Dealing with nasty attack rhetoric and whisper campaigns was totally something else. Insulting, really. You see I’m gay and fairly open about it. I don’t advertise it because many people are sensitive to the subject. So I live my life openly and if someone wishes to talk about it with me I’m more than willing to do so.

In political circumstances, however, such talk is done quietly, secretly with rolling eyes and sly nodding of head and shoulders. You know the message: you don’t really want a gay person on the city council, do you? Well, they did the first time with no fanfare, and they saw what they got for four years with complete transparency.  But the secret campaign worked and I was not re-elected.

A couple of years later I was appointed to a vacant board position on the park board of commissioners. One year later I ran for the seat in the open election, won, and four years later was re-elected to the same spot. Quiet service to the community, no political fanfare, just a good job well done by all on the board. That’s the way it should be. These are service positions, after all, not life-long careers with pay or any benefits. Just service.

The city council gig did pay a modest stipend ($400 per month) and that mostly covered gas, wear and tear on the car, and the price of many books and data subscriptions so I could study up on topics and be prepared for emerging issues. But the money, you see, made people think aldermen were feathering their nests and thus should be given the bum’s rush!  How dumb can they be?  Pretty dumb, really! 

Very dumb. Take this discussion to the state and national level and you see what I mean? Running for public office is a high contact sport in America. Don’t expect to be respected or loved! God forbid! Don’t help the officeholder do his/her job with fresh information and voluntary help. Just sit on the sidelines and complain and attack.

I truly don’t understand why there are any people willing to run for public office. Consider just congressmen: they are required by the US Constitution to run for re-election every two years. This is supposed to keep them focused on doing the people’s work so they can be judged competent. Instead, the congressmen are perpetually involved in their re-election campaign.  They are always raising money for campaigning, selling votes to big donors and special interest groups, and then following the political party line so they get cooperation from the party in funding their next election as well.

The end result usually is a congressman who does not represent the best interests of his district or the nation.  But without money or party support, others will run against you and destroy your reputation with stories and attacks that are not based on facts at all. It is heinous, and it will lead to the destruction of our national credibility and sustainability if it isn't solved.

Forget about running for governor of your state, or the US Senator from your state, or for President. The stakes are enormous and so the fight gets really dirty. Fast. And so terribly counter to factual evidence.

It’s a pity that we don’t do better. We can do better. And we must do better. Doing that begins with each of us doing more volunteer work and understanding the issues from the inside. Then you will be prepared to run for office – large or small – and possibly run later for a more leadership oriented position. Perhaps that position will help you help the nation back to a more pleasant and honest political environment?

I doubt this will be a fast process. I doubt I will live long enough to see it. But I have done my part and will continue to volunteer for interesting tasks. But elections? Not again. I’m too old. That sport is for young people. But intelligent, involved people will vote for the best people because their experience makes that possible.

Try it! You might like it!

September 25, 2014




Wednesday, September 24, 2014

What’s Important?


The news is filled with many topics. Some are interesting, some funny, and others gossipy. Still others are educational, inspirational or downright newsworthy. Of the latter I would include the following:

  • Ebola outbreak; when is it classified a plague?
  • ISIS rampage across Syria, Iraq; where will it extend to?
  • World response to ISIS; will multi-lateral forces strafing ISIS in foreign territory increase change of a regional war?  Why is Saudi Arabia sitting this out?
  • State of International Peace: what are the trouble spots? (Iran nuclear program; Syria civil war; Libya civil war; Egypt leadership challenges; African nations and their leadership issues; et.al.)
  • Russian adventures to unsettle eastern Europe; re-sovietization?
  • North Korea and who will maintain peace in the region for the international community?
  • Global warming, climate change
  • Economics 2014 and 2015: where are we headed and when? How can we improve on the results? Wealth gap issues? Middle Class survival?
  • Technology: tool or master of our destiny?
  • Educational health of our nation: are students getting what they need to succeed? What age students?
  • Global Community, Global Economy? Do all prosper?
  • Persistent drought conditions; where? How to manage the issues, repair the damage, and solve the problem long term?
  • World Health and Medical Service Access: how do we raise the level of health care for the most people on Earth? Who bears the responsibility and cost?  Leadership?
  • Arts: what role does it play in human destiny, health, and life quality?
  • Energy independence globally: how do we meet our own needs and help other nations to do the same?
  • Housing: What is the new norm? What standards should be followed? How do living standards globally get improved? Who leads?

This list can go on and it should. The list should then be categorized to some extent for solid focus, then prioritized as to which ones are truly most important for the long term good of humankind. 

With that list interested people could commit to do something about the topics to improve on them, to improve on the history of mankind.  Wouldn't that be nice!

However – you knew there was a however! – we are subjected to endless celebrity news,
Interesting tidbits about fashion, food, wine, travel and much more. Interesting to some, of course; but fascinating and life changing?  Hardly. No there are other things we ought to matter to us.

Instead we are distracted by the things that allure to the lowest common denominator among us.  Pitiful.

There are real issues and real goals we ought to be working on. That work is challenging, fun and rewarding all in its own way. In some fashion or other I've been about that most of my life. I haven’t always focused on the most important, but in the end what I have done matters to others. That’s all I can wish for.  And I feel pretty certain the wish will come true.

Can you tell the world that what you have focused your life on has made a difference in the lives of others? Even a little?  Bravo!

Now about the others,…

September 24, 2014


Tuesday, September 23, 2014

Media Fare


What we are exposed to daily by the media is quite an array of topics. That’s an understatement!

Sports seem to be a seasonal favorite throughout the year. Currently autumn football action is a big deal in the USA.  It’s colorful, action oriented and interesting to witness the athletic prowess, mental strategies of the game as well as the movement on a big screen TV.

But I am not a sports enthusiast. Not in fall, summer, spring or winter. I like the Olympic winter games probably more than the others, but then I’m sitting in my warm home viewing the quaint wintry exhibitions of others out in the cold! For some reason it makes me feel cozy.

Baseball for me is boring. Watching a game on TV is better than being in the ballpark. Fewer distractions on the TV and more focus on the game. Still, it feels like watching paint dry. I know my comment won’t sit well with sports fans, but hey, there are a gazillion people just like me so get over it!

The only good thing about baseball for me is its arrival on the seasonal calendar means winter is over and outdoor activities beckon with warmer days and sunny skies.

So, sports don’t do much for me. I care which cities have winning teams for different sports. It makes them feel better about their community. That’s a good thing, so I pay attention to that. But I really don’t follow sports. At all. I’d like their presence in my newspaper or internet home page to be devoid of this distraction. I have other things I’m interested in.

The Kardashians seem to be everywhere and that’s the problem for me. I don’t know these people, nor do I care much for them. From what I read and see they don’t produce anything, improve on anything, or empower the world, so they seem to be a national Facebook item that’s gone viral!  Enough. They are not news.

Same for most society items. Those are not news unless it is local. Celebrity news, too. They are nice people and talented. They share their talents with us in the form of their art and entertainment. They get well paid for those efforts. I really don’t need to know their marriage is in tatters, or they are having an affair with someone, or any of that rot.  I wish them well and hope their lives are happy and not filled with obsessions or addictions with various behaviors and substances. On the same hand I don’t wish to be informed of those troubles should they encounter them.

Oh, I’m not much interested in hearing someone’s opinion on what happened, either. I do want to know what happened. I want to wrestle with whether this happening is important and why, but I don’t need someone immediately to tell me that. I want to work that out for myself first. Later, I will search out expertise and their ‘take’ on the matter. This action will help me round out my understanding of the matter and keep me an independent thinker who tests his opinions against experts.

Here’s my ideal news outlet’s content: Weather forecast (do I need an umbrella, boots or a heavier coat); sports scores in tabular form I can scan or skip, nothing more; world events of high impact (wars, peace talks, emergent leaders, etc); regional/national news of high impact; local news; amazing new entertainment/arts events and access to more information on those events if I’m interested; science news; education news; business and economics news.

That’s it. All of that I can research to my heart’s content and feed my own interests. Along the way I can connect, mix or disconnect several items as they interrelate or not. It is that circular interplay of differing topics in which moments of genius are encountered and developed. We all need more opportunity for that to occur.

Today’s media seems to think we don’t think and need to be fed a constant stream of predigested food! News or food, either predigested is disgusting!

So the internet so far serves me better than a newspaper. Even so I am challenged to scan much content and skip a lot of it.

Media are reinventing their genre. It is painful for them and us during this period. Oh how I wish they’d find their place, soon!

September 23, 2014


Monday, September 22, 2014

United Kingdom


I am glad that Scotland voted to remain in the UK family. Being and American I don’t pretend to understand what the whole vote embraced but I feel certain that working together in a unified family of nations is more productive than going their separate ways.

I understand each nation must be firm in its identity. I was unaware that there were tensions in the UK over such identity, especially for Scotland.  For that I am sad.

The vote stirred quite a ruckus. People talked about the issues and emotions of dissolving the union. That will prove to be advantageous, I think. The vote may be over but the dialog must continue.

Scottish national identity needs some work.  They must ask themselves who they are and what makes them uniquely Scot. Also, they need to work on the long term vision of their nation – 20 years from now how will Scotland be viewed? How do they want it to be viewed?

Scotland has a long and proud history. That history has led to the present day. How well is Scotland today? How would Scots describe their present day situation?  Does that beg for changes to launch a strong and alluring future?  What should that future be?  How do they make that happen?

Struggling with these discussions is hard enough for a small organization or business firm. For a whole nation to engage such a process is complexity magnified!  Daunting really. But still necessary.  America would do well to do this, too!

A healthy analysis will lead to a broader understanding among all Scots. From that vantage point all sorts of good things are possible. Collaboration and cooperation among a diverse national population is needed for true progress to result.

It won’t be easy but it is inescapable.  Each citizen needs to engage the process and conversation. They will need to feel a part of the process for it to be successful.

I wish them the best of outcomes. It will lead to a strong and fruitful future for the nation.

The rest of the global community will be watching as well. All nations need to pay attention to their own people, their dreams and hopes. Governing is about the common weal of the people. Without that there is no national identity. Or spirit.


September 22, 2014

Saturday, September 20, 2014

Thought for the Day



A complex thought for this day:

            “President Obama didn't invite immigrants to come to the U.S.
            She [Lady Liberty] did.
            Give me your tired, your poor, you huddled masses yearning to breathe free.”

Our arms are open in welcome, or should be. Our mood is open in justice, or should be. Our intent is open in love, or should be.

Or else how can we be Americans?

Or citizens of the world for that matter?!

September 20, 2014