Wednesday, April 11, 2012

Predisposed to Help, or Not?

Over the years people have asked me to help them in any number of ways. Although I am predisposed to say yes to these pleas, I am not always ready. I may not have the time, money or skills to lend a meaningful hand. But I have trouble saying no!
Similarly I have been the asker of help in recent years. Help for others, yes; help for me, also true. It is hard to ask for help – donations, time, product or a hand – because all too often the answer is ‘no.’ That is difficult to hear. It is hard to not feel a personal rebuff. But that isn’t really fair.

Whenever a group seeks assistance from the public for donations or helping hands, or the gift of simple food stuffs, we must always understand the complexity of life visits each of us differently at different times. We are not always able to say yes even if we would like to. That is a valuable lesson to learn and keep in mind!

Clearly some people are predisposed to help. Ask them anytime and they give a resounding Yes! They are remarkable partners in the community. They are not just lovers of humankind; they are sensitive and knowing of needs that only other people can provide. These good people give the most important kind of help: time, talent and caring. No money involved. They give of themselves. What a treasure!

Opposite are those people who always ask: ‘What’s in it for me?’ I have a living to make, expenses to cover. What will I get from this activity?

I recently had a deep discussion on an idea I had for a program. The discussion was among real estate professionals and I was picking their brains for an alternative housing idea for elders in my town. Not all of the input was bad or sour. But some was. It seems the lousy real estate market has many people digging in to protect themselves while the markets continue in the doldrums. My idea was to break through the normal constraints of the market and do something different so everyone would benefit. But the self centered feel this is wrong.  Go figure! Fix the problem for all; each gives up a little so the whole can regain health.

But I forgot the cardinal rule: some people simply cannot give aid when they are feeling the hurt; they are not predisposed to help others at those moments.

The solution? Keep pushing for other people who can help and want to. Even need to.

There are those persons in our midst. They need to lend a hand. It makes them feel good about themselves and their community. Even their nation. We all often feel rewarded when we act together for the common good of those in need. The response to tornado victims, or those caught in wide spread flooding, forest fires or earthquakes. We send food, clothing, daily living supplies and money. We watch TV coverage of the disaster and feel a need to be a part of it. That’s all good. Those are values we were taught when we were kids, but also we learned them from life itself. Help others less fortunate than yourself. Along the way we got the message – our turn may come when we are in need and will need a helping hand.

The current economy provides good lessons. There are millions who have lost their nest egg and they are too old to replace those lost dollars. There are millions who have lost careers and they will live simply until the careers are replaced. There are those who have lost funds for their kids’ education; those kids will still get an education, just not one at the school of their choice; and they will take out loans to pay tuition! Not ideal, but passable.

One lesson we should have learned is that humans are greedy and distort ‘free markets.’ When that happens bubbles grow and burst. The growing phase is heady and fun and exciting. The bursting phase is painful and tragic to many. Fixing the brokenness takes cooperation, the kind that relies on Congress and state legislatures, industry leaders in finance and investments, and in the real estate industry. But we have not received such cooperation, not really.

The White House sought help. They got it in several forms. But grudgingly. Congress didn’t want political enemies to get credit for solutions; only for blame. And that picture they confused beyond recognition. So not much creative work was done. And who got hurt? The middle class; the low income groups. Everyone else felt some pain but still made money and came out somewhat whole.

Greed is ugly. Greed keeps us in ruts that are hard to get out of. I’ll help you if you pay me a commission. I’ll do the legal work if you pay me a retainer. I’ll invest in your project if you can guarantee me a reasonable return, or large profit.

This is free market. There are no guarantees. But these people demand it none the same. Meanwhile, renters are tossed out on the street. Elders lose their homes. Senior citizens can’t find replacement housing. Young families are losing their homes or at least are going through several phases of foreclosure and near bankruptcy. Homeless populations have swelled. Welfare roles are huge. Unemployment compensation has run out.

These are desperate times for many families. Many individuals. Yet solutions are argued and debated to death in our places of legislation. Endlessly argued. No help or too little too late to save many from ignominy.  Shame on elected officials unable or unprincipled to solve the really big problems of our time.

Who cares who’s to blame? We need solutions and we need them now.

We must do things differently if we expect different results.  Here’s a potential solution:

  1. Allow Home Owner Associations to contract with a property manager to handle only the foreclosed or empty units in their complexes
  2. Turn over control from Fannie Mae and Freddie Mac to the special property manager for three years; during that time, this agent will:
    1. Operate the vacant properties under lease to senior citizens and low income families, with a special focus on single parent families with children
    2. Housing units will be filled with skill matching in mind:
                                                              i.      Seniors needing care/attention to be provided by other neighbors

                                                            ii.      Seniors provide child care for single parents while they are out earning a living

                                                          iii.      Community support needs are provided by the residents of the housing complex

    1. In three years the property values should be safeguarded from free fall, and hopefully rebuilt some; if not, the term is extended until property values do recover 20 or 30%
    3. Mortgage servicers will continue their billing and support services

This program idea recognizes and serves these needs:

  1. HOAs are battling a huge foreclosure and vacancy problem
  2. Dislocated residents are battling homelessness
  3. Communities are struggling to remain whole and healthy
  4. Common problems can be managed in common at the neighborhood level
  5. Stakeholders include municipalities, real estate industry, lenders, mortgage guarantors, and the local economy as a whole
If this program works, spread it to non-HOA neighborhoods and stakeholders. Eventually the excess housing inventory will be absorbed and prices stabilized sooner.

Together we can all make a difference if we suspend the normal rules and make good things happen. Pretending that all things are normal doesn’t work. It is a reality show with a guaranteed bad ending.

Can we work together for our common good? Or will we pretend to?

April 11, 2012




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