The topic today is mysterious to me. For some reason I will
stumble across a problem and wonder about it. That leads to defining it as best
I can. Then my mind turns to what ought to be happening, or what outcomes
would we prefer to see rather than the fallout from a problem? From there my mind turns to possible solutions to the original problem.
Sometimes finding the solution is not the way to go.
Sometimes it is more fruitful to imagine how a desired outcome should be. If that outcome is realized, wouldn’t it trump the problem? Wouldn’t the
problem become neutralized? If so, then that’s one way to solve the problem. Do
an end run around it!
Are you still with me? Hope so.
I read an article the other day that said the largest
problem – or barrier – to success for most people is their ego. I can see that.
But the article went on to state that egos need excuses why success is not
always theirs. They are looking for a protective reason why they do not always
succeed. And the article suggests that the presence of problems is how those
egos protect themselves.
At this suggestion, my mind is bucking a bit. But, let’s go
a little farther with this article’s logic. He suggests that problems are
always with us and provide a handy excuse for why things do not go the way we
want them to. Farther along, the article provides a solution to this state of
affairs. It is – trumpets riffling in the background! – search for problems and then
solve them.
OK. Got it. Sort of.
Well, actually not! Seems to me anyone interested in
exceeding their own expectations will already have discovered the allure of
problems and the opportunity to solve them. Making quick work of any puzzle is
fun. It satisfies the sense of ability and wholeness. That’s why we consume
crossword puzzles daily, or acrostics, or math teasers. We don’t always like
them but we still rise to the challenge.
Today we are consumed with political intrigue, celebrity
news of infidelities and sexual abuse, and so much more. A lot of our time is
spent reading articles about problems and things that went wrong.
Disappointments in life are often the soul of plot lines in movies, novels and
short stories.
At some point in our lives shouldn’t we become restless and
bored with this state of affairs. Isn’t it more fun and interesting to think up
solutions to them? Gosh, I think so.
Working with past employers our jobs were centered on
operating the organization toward better results. Maybe it was a new program we
were designing. Perhaps it was a policy written to protect the institution from
a Human Relations problem, or maybe it was earning greater profits from long
existing practices.
Whatever the assignment, it was not only our job to make
things better, to perfect our functioning, but it was also fun to dive deeper
into the problems to discover possible solutions.
For example, just because
drug addiction is a current problem in our culture doesn’t mean it is unsolvable. We can imagine our culture free of drug addictions, can’t we?
If that is so, then working backward, can we stumble across the actions,
policies, behaviors that would avoid drug addiction in the first place?
What about students graduating from high school or college
unable to demonstrate they can handle a job or new career opportunity? What
have we missed in their education that would repair this common complaint?
What about older people becoming bored with their lives? Are
they so used to being entertained by turning on the TV that they have forgotten
to read a book, to discuss the book with other people, or maybe, just maybe,
seek the camaraderie of a book discussion group at the local library, church or
senior citizens community center? From that activity can they see the
possibility of mentoring a youth or small group of young people seeking answers
to the mysteries of life?
What about hobbies that lead to artistic expressions of the
inner self? What about visiting local galleries that show such expression of
many artists? What about walking into the town’s city hall and asking about
programs and problems that they need help with? Could they volunteer to serve
on those committees?
What do we do about the drug culture in our country? What
possible solutions can we find or create? Prison is not a solution. Fines,
either. Local school programs during or after class times are probably not the
fix, either, although we may be getting nearer to the goal.
Putting our heads together to focus on a condition or
problem that is unwanted is a great way to spend some time. The results will be
valuable to the participants even if they don’t find the right solution. They
will have tried to do so. By doing so they will have learned much about the
self, each other, and the problem all at the same time. A solution may pop to
mind eventually because of their involvement. It certainly won’t come out of
thin air if they don’t at least try.
I fail to see where ego is involved in this. Or how the
existence of a problem is a good thing as an excuse for imperfection.
Successful people – and citizens – look for problems to
solve. Each challenge is an opportunity for success. Change itself is an
opportunity for success. These test our mettle. They call for creativity. And
community.
And community. More on this another
time. But community requires our involvement for it to prosper. I think the
seeds of solutions to common problems are found in community. Now there’s a
puzzle with a solution!
November 13, 2017
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